Where I come from and live, queer is still a slur. Even if it were not, I personally take offense at a word denoting odd or unusual characteristics to represent any non-heterosexual sexuality or non-cisgender identity. And I know that's a personal issue but I feel the need to express it here.
don’t worry friend, that’s totally valid for you to think that and i’m not trying to force anyone’s identity into a shoe box,
however i do think it is important that a community has a unified identity so that it can mobilize more effectively… (not that the community i’m speaking of is completely all on the same page..»>)
Im a dude totally straight but sometimes I wish I was a girl, and I would love to have boobs and a vagina and sometimes I dress up like a girl and masturbate and I imagine Im a girl. Do you think Im gay or do I need like a sex change or something?
if you believe that you’re a girl and you like girls then you would be gay in my book! sexuality and gender identity are two complETELY different realms, though they usually get mixed together
i’m gender fluid so i understand what you’re going through!
So this is me (left) and my adorable boyfriend. <3(right) We met literally in the beginning of January, and by then I lost hope of finding anyone. The week before my birthday we met at a Starbucks…and have literally spent every second together. On our 4th date he kissed me under City Hall and we’ve been together since then. :) I love him so very much. The most honest and stable relationship that I’ve ever had. Just kinda scared of when he moves back to Sweden. ;(